why do so many shows frame s/a on men as "they were cheating/being unloyal" ?! its genuinley upsetting to watch it being used as a plot device...when the male character is repeatedly saying no and clearly not into it and theyre just completley ignored + then they get "caught" and the female characters partner/love interest gets mad...but they get mad at the victim instead of the perpetrator...?! its not funny, its stupid and harmful.